I am so excited because now that I have a child who watches some children's programming, I have a legitimate opinion on the whole Katy Perry/Sesame Street controversy.

I watched the clip (you can see it below) and I have to say that I am offended, but not only because of her dress. I am offended because her music is not appropriate for children, and I would be concerned that this would set up younger kids to seek out more of her music because she is a friend of Elmo. (Which, on a side note that has got to become a euphemism for something because "friend of Elmo" is just too rich a phrase to not mean something else off-color.) But, if I am monitoring what my child sees and hears, I would most likely be able to subtly steer her from any pop music that I didn't think she was ready for.

Anyway, her music aside, I do think her outfit was inappropriate for Sesame Street. She has other cute outfits that are not quite as baring. However, for the demographic, I suspect the cleavage would be lost on them. I heard recently a DJ say something to the effect of "for kids under 4, breasts are just food and for kids over 4, breasts are like, 'ew, gross!'" And, I have to keep in mind that if I want my children to be comfortable with the sight of breastfeeding, and ultimately breasts, I can't make a big deal in front of them about someone showing a bit more cleavage than I'd like.

The other thing is Katy Perry really sold me on wanting to play dress-up with Elmo. She acted very well for the skit/song and I think it was a very cute idea.

So, my overall opinion is that Katy Perry could have made a much better clothing choice, even just adding a wider strap at the top of her dress, and there probably wouldn't have been as much of an issue. Candidly, I might let my 9-month-old watch it simply because it is a very colorful video and plus, she does love music.

Here's the video:





Things I learned on my first road trip with the baby:
  • There is a nerve in your shoulder that, when pressed against the front seat while reaching into the back seat, will make your fingers tingle. And not in a good way.
  • Two stressed out parents do not make a bad situation better. Surprisingly, neither does a Dairy Queen Blizzard.
  • Babies pee A LOT when you really wouldn't expect them to.
  • The person who swears that there is no need for anyone to sit in the back seat with the baby will end up sitting in the back seat with the baby.
  • The blood eventually flows back into your finger after the frantic baby stops sucking it for comfort once he/she is finally asleep.
  • Bored drivers will hum entire musicals to themselves when there's no one in the front seat to talk to.
  • You can breastfeed a baby that is safely and securely fastened in their car seat. Not easily, not comfortably, but you can do it.
  • Don't panic when the mechanic says that your alternator needs to be replaced. It could just be a loose connection.


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I heard the term "homophobic" the other day. I am familiar with the term and what it means, but it got me to thinking... if someone doesn't like gay people, they are considered homophobic. Is that grammatically correct? Does that imply that they are scared of gay people? Racists don't like, for example, black people. A lot of racists I have encountered are also scared of black people. But they are not called blackaphobic; they are called racist. So shouldn't we have a more accurate term for people who don't like gay people? Shouldn't it be an -ism or an -ist? Is there such a thing as homoists? That sounds like a medical term.

On a side note, I do think that blackaphobic is probably a pretty accurate term because it reminds me of a little old Southern woman who locks her car doors when she sees a black man on the street. That sounds like a blackaphobe...


I was laying in bed the other night and thinking about all that happened in 2009. I decided to review it just for fun...

  • January: I can't remember anything that happened.
  • February: Anniversary dinner at the Melting Pot; Dad's heart surgery; getting vertigo
  • March: FreshStart Retreat; New Kids concert at the Sommet with Anna (!); getting pregnant (all three happened in the span of three days LOL)
  • April: Finding out I was pregnant and telling the family... they were all so happy!
  • May: Still trying to keep pregnancy a secret from everyone except family; the baby's first ultrasound
  • June: 34th birthday
  • July: 4th of July fireworks in Smyrna; going all out with Nathan and buying our own fun fireworks to shoot at home; finding out we were having a girl; deciding on her name
  • August: Convention at work and trying to make a decent maternity shirt to wear for it.
  • September: Nathan's 38th birthday
  • October: Designing and painting the baby's room
  • November: Starting to get antsy and impatient about birth
  • December: Getting a virus that caused dehydration and contractions; Coraline's birth